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Win Him Back – How To Save A Relationship
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Win Him Back – How to Save A Relationship

If you are looking to win back the man whom you have just broken up with, there are a number of things you need to consider first. It is possible to save your relationship, but before you try, you should be absolutely certain that it is what you want.

Once you are sure that getting back together is what you want to do, then you will need to speak to your ex. It is best if you don't contact him for the first few weeks - chances are, you both said some things in the heat of the moment that you now regret. Both of you need some time to calm down after any arguments, and he will need time to start missing you.

After several weeks have passed, you may want to call him. If he doesn't answer the phone, and this is entirely possible, it isn't a problem. You could simply leave him a message asking if the two of you can get together and talk. Don't tell him that you love him or miss him - you need to find out what he thinks first.

If he does not respond to your message, it may be that he is not interested in getting back together, or you may need to try a different approach. Find out somewhere he goes regularly, and then you can casually bump into him one day. At first, the best approach is to simply ask how he is, and make polite conversation. Don't bring up your past at this stage, just allow him the chance to get over his shock at seeing and speaking to you again.

If you do decide to meet him in this way, make sure you take the time to look good. Although it sounds extremely shallow, he will be paying attention to the way you look. If you really want to win him back, then you won't forget about this extremely important aspect of attraction. It can make more of a difference than you might think.

It is definitely possible to save your relationship after a break up, so don't give up if you are certain that this is what you want. You can get back together with your ex, and have a successful relationship, regardless of what may have happened between you in the past, as long as you are both committed and prepared to put in the effort to make it work.


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