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Your Ex Girlfriend Is Sleeping With Another Guy - Here's What To Do
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Discovering that your ex girlfriend is sleeping with another person can be the most painful news you might have to deal with. It can be very destructive emotionally and mentally. You might be wondering what is wrong with you; whether you never used to satisfy her sexually or what you were not able to give her.

In most cases, it has nothing to do with you, or if it does, it is meant to either get her mind over you or make you want her back. You need to get over the initial anger, emotional range, hatred and hurt you might be feeling.

Stay busy in this time of crisis

You should not allow the destructive feelings to rule your life. You need to get something else to occupy your time and keep you away from her for the time being.

Confronting her will just make things worse. Going to her and telling her that you want her back will also not make things any better. You will be giving her a chance to control your feelings and life.

Exercise to get your mind off the pain

Starting an exercise routine is a good way to not only keep fit or get back into shape but also get time to deal with the issues you are facing.

If you want to stop getting hurt about her sleeping with another guy, you should put yourself in to her shoes and think like she does. To start with, many women end up in a rebound relationship because they cannot handle being alone after a break up.

The other relationship is meant to help her get over you or make you want her crazily again. The emotional bond between the two of you cannot be broken that easily even after a break up. You should therefore use it to your advantage.

If you take better care of yourself, you will feel much better about your whole life. This will be reflected in everything that you do and say. When you finally get to meet with your ex again, she will be surprised by the new you and perhaps even want to get you back into her life.

When you are busy with the new activities in your life, you have less time to call her, email or go check up on her. If you were doing this on a regular basis after the break up then you suddenly stop, this will raise alarm bells and she will start wondering whether you have already found someone else.

Note that even if she might not want you back, she would die from jealousy if she saw you with another person.

Finally contacting her

After a long break, if you finally get to call her, sound cheerful and contented with your life as it is. Let it sound casual and friendly. Do not bring with you all the emotional baggage you have been carrying along since the break up.

Don't even let the images of her sleeping with another guy spoil your mind. If she is friendly enough and sounds eager to talk or meet with you, this is a sign that she has been waiting for you to patch up things with you. If she sounds annoyed and eager to hang up the phone, it might be time to date other women.

Contrary to what you might be feeling, you are still attractive and desirable. The same qualities that drew her to you are still capable of attracting other women too. But if you're not interested in doing that, using the no contact rule is a great way to get her back after a breakup.


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  about 9 years ago
julia6  

i told my boyfriend to take a week space from me to sort out his feelings. i was hopeful that things would work out as he was always telling me that he loved me and had strong feelings for me. but all of a sudden he said that he wanted to be single and had doubts about our future together. i did cry but i did not beg him to stay. i said sorry for any hurt i had caused him and thanked him for showing me love. very hard but i did it with as much dignaty as i could. but i never understand why he dont want to stay with me. but before he left he told me i am irressistable, lovely warm person etc but he just want to walk away from my life. the pain was awful. our getting together was fateful and we found out our birthday both 1st june. he is 43 and i am 44. it was weird. i thought we were made for each other. he deleted my numbers but i never let go of him. i wanted him back but he has made up his mind so i had no choice but to look for a way to get him back so what i did was to look for a spell caster to help me get back my lover fast as possible, when i came across prophetharry@ymail. com, so he did a love spell for me and the spell came out perfect, my lover reconciled with me and we came back together and since then we have been in peace and the lover is flowing perfectly julie

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  about 9 years ago
hanna  

My husband has abandon me and the kids for the the past 8months now, and refuse to come back because he was hold on by a woman whom he just met, for that, my self and the kids has been suffering and it has been heel of a struggle, but i decide to do all means to make sure that my family come together as it use to, then i went online there i saw so many good talk about this spell caster whose email is ogbologbotemple@gmail. com so i had to contact him and in just 4days as he has promised, my husband came home and his behavior was back to the man i got married to.I cant thank the spell caster enough what what he did for me, i am so grateful. I even spoke to the spell caster over the phone, to confirm his existence. His email again is: ogbologbotemple@gmail. com

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  about 9 years ago
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