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3 Reasons Why You Keep Failing At Winning Your Ex Back
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If you are wondering why you keep failing at winning your ex back, it could be because your first impression was not too great. Even though you were dating your ex, a good first impression is still the best way to get back with your ex. Let me explain what I mean.

Keep reading!

In most broken relationships, the average Joe does a few things that will most likely turn off his or her ex lover. And I am talking about:

1. Calling their ex back to back harassing them

2. Staying at home pouting about their breakup

3. Constantly on facebook or any other social network trying to figure out what their doing or who they are talking to

You see, these types of actions are not very good first impressions and should not be done for a few reasons.

First of all, calling your ex every second of the day is annoying. Not only that to, but if it was me, I would feel afraid. Why would I feel? I would feel afraid, because some people do crazy things when they are hurt and angry. I know, because my sister was killed by her ex boyfriend and he use to call her 24/7 when they broke up.

Do you want to scare away the person you love and want to spend the rest of your life with? I do not think so, so please do not harass your ex.

Now, whenever you pout all day long about your broken heart, you somehow tend to get more miserable. Your ex does not want to know that you've been pouting all day because they broke up with you. They would rather see you doing you and something more constructive with your time. And besides, just because you are crying, does not mean that you really want your ex back.

Ok, do know how many couples breakup because of Facebook? So many couples get into arguments on Facebook because of jealousy of another person. And if you are constantly checking your ex Facebook status, your ex will know, because most likely you will post s comment about your ex and their status. Please do not do that. This will cause more confusion and your ex will never consider you back with you sneaking on her or him.

So, do you see why you keep failing at winning your ex back? Do you want to continue failing at winning your ex lover back? I don't think so.

Let's take "Magic of Making Up" by T.W Jackson for example. Not that many people have read this ebook, but I've heard people say that it's a really good relationship help book that shows you how to effectively comminucate with your ex or lover and learn how to understand them.

Believe it or not, communication is a must in any romatic relationship, because it creates trust and understanding. I'm sure you want to be understood, right? I'm almost positive you do. Whenever your partner knows that you understand them, they will become more sincere and understanding of you.

So, do yourself a favor and create the magic of making up in your broken relationship. You deserve a second chance, but you must make a first great impression to win your ex back with magic.


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