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Getting Your Ex Back Tips

You’re walking down the street and you see your ex coming towards you. What do you do? Do you say Hi? Or should you duck into the first store and hide from her or him?

This is a normal situation that happens every day and most people have no idea of how to deal with it. They don’t want to see their ex because they aren’t over the break up and still hurt real bad, or they are still mad at them for actually walking out on them.

Did you know that there are things that you can do that will prepare you for this exact situation? That will help you deal with it in such a way that your ex will be interested in you again? That will let you deal with the situation and walk away knowing that you have not made a fool of yourself and that there’s a good chance that you’ve actually started the process of getting your ex back again.

The first thing that you will learn is to spend some time reviewing the relationship that you and your ex had. You will need to think about this so that you can figure out what went wrong and why you broke up. Was it just one big reason or was it a bunch of smaller things that just kept getting bigger and bigger until they were no longer just small things? Once you’ve had some time to think about these and can come up with a list, you will then need to think about how you will them when they come up again. And they will probably come up again once you and your ex are back together again.

The second thing you need to do is to start living your own life. You need to force yourself to go out with your friends and family. It won’t be very easy to do this to start, but the idea behind doing this is to prevent you from becoming a clinger. Your ex won’t be interested in you if they think that all you do is mope around waiting for them to call or for someone to show you sympathy. All this does is make you feel worse, and prolong the pain that you’re going through.

Go out, enjoy yourself and let people know that you’re have a good time. Facebook is a great way to do that. Ask yourself, which person would you be interested in? The person who just posts poor me scenarios on their facebook page or someone who looks like they are enjoying their lives? This isn’t to say that you should pretend that your ex doesn’t matter to you or that the breakup didn’t matter, you need to show that you are moving onwards even though you are still hurting.

By doing this and starting to get back into the single life, you are showing your ex that although they are important to you, if need be, you can have a full life without them.

Now picture yourself meeting your ex coming towards you on the street and imagine being able to say Hi and perhaps stop and chat for a couple of minutes, knowing that they are going to be quite interested in you as a great person and not as a wheepy cling on that they would prefer to avoid.

These are just a few of the tactics that you can use to help you get over a break up and make a positive move towards getting your ex back. There are many more ideas available that have been proven to work.


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great article...very similar to the zoomonkey system that i also found online

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