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Heal My Heartbreak, Because I Want Her Back
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Everyone has to experience being heartbroken at least once n their lifetime. If you’ve never experience and heartbreak, then you will never know what true love feels like. When I got my heart broken years ago, I yearn for a healing heart. It took years to get over him, and every once in a while he crosses my min. When you truly love someone, that doesn’t mean they are meant for you and is good for you. Sometimes it’s best for them to be in your heart and not in your life. Can we agree?

So, you’re dying for a healing heart and you want her back, right? That’s cool. But, do you know the steps to healing a heart? If not, then take notes. If you don’t take notes, don’t complain about your situation, because you're doing nothing to help the situation.

To heal a broken heart, you must first accept your breakup. If you don’t accept it, it will be harder to overcome it. I’m not saying you should pretend like nothing happened, but look on the bright side of things and accept what has happen by not being in denial.

Secondly, think rational and not irrational. When you think rational, that means you are using your brain and not your anger or sadness. When you use your anger or sadness, you will do things and regret them later on in life and that will ultimately hinder the chances of you bringing her back into your life.

I want her back. How do I get her back?

Pull yourself together and have confidence. Confidence is the key in this situation. After confidence comes action. Without action, you will be stuck in your heart break. Is that what you want? I don’t think so. Think of it like this. If she doesn’t want you, another girl will. Thinking positive about yourself and demeanor will help you understand that there is nothing wrong with you, and you can get her back, because you are worthy. Believe me, if you don’t think you’re worth of her, and then she won’t think so either. Think it, believe it, and act upon it.

There is nothing wrong with being just friends right now. It’s either that or she’s out of your life. Which one do you prefer? You probably feel like you can’t be friends with someone you love and can’t have, but who told you that you can’t have her again?


Street Talk

You tell it like is, Saytue...but that is a slippery slope being friends and wanting to have here as well.

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  about 1 decade ago

Yep, people know me as to be pretty bold. Yea, wanting her and still being friends can be on the edge sometimes, as long as both are real, then you should know not to cross that line. Either you agree or disagree, ya know. At the end of day, if she still have feelings and he still have feelings, it's going to be a cut buddy situation or a lot of emotions will be flowing.

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  about 1 decade ago
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