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How To Get Over A Broken Relationship Grief
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How to Get Over A Broken Relationship Grief

She's been there, he's been there, I've been there and now you're there. It hurts to have a broken relationship when your're very much in love, doesn't it? One thing for sure, a relationship is not a relationship when it's broken. In this article, I will talk to you about what makes a broken relationship and how to get over your grief.

Now that I've distinguish that we all have been there at some point in our lives; it's important to understand that just because your relationship is broken up doesn't mean that there is no way of glueing the pieces back together.

Think about why your relationship is where it is:

1. Lack of trust

2. Cheating

3. Other baby momma issues

4. Selfishness

5. Lack of sex

6. Not affectionate

7. Family issues

Once you have answered the question to where it went wrong, it's time for you to do do something about it.

  • Stop crying
  • Stop being depressed
  • Stop blaming yourself
  • Stop being miserable all together

There is still a lot of life in you, so please start acting like it. The love of your life will more than likely not give their heart back to you if they knew how you are reacting to the situation. Believe it or not, doing these things will more than likely scare them away, because now days, you don't know what people are capable of, especially when their deeply in love and angry or sad.

Is that what you want, for the love of your life to be afraid of you? I don't think so. Besides, you are so special and you don't even know it. I'm sure the love of your life knows it to, especially when ya'll have shared so many intimate moments together or have been through some really deep stuff that no one would've probably went through with any of you. Think about it.

Sometimes the best solution to getting over a broken relationship is talking to someone. Some people talk to their best friend for advice, but if your best friend is terrible in their relationship, I suggest you don't try to get any good advice from them. What I will reccomend you do is these two things:

1. Read a good relationship guide

2. Talk to a relationship counselor

I find that books are good to read because they soothe your brain and also gives you different perspectives on what you probably didn't think of. They're also great if you don't want any one in your personal business.

Talking to a good relationship counselor will most definitely help you get over a broken relationship grief, because sometimes it's better to talk to a stranger than someone you actually know. A stranger will be more real with you and will also give you new perspectives on your relationsahip than you could even imagine.

As you can see, you have quite a few options here to choose from. Choose one that best fit you or you can try both of them out. It's up to you to determine how far you want to go to get over your broken relationship grief.


Street Talk

Great article, thank you. You write really nicely Saytue.

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  about 7 years ago

Nice article and it has come timely as my sister and her BFF broke up after a couple of years of being in relationship. I’ll give them this advice :) Thanks God I've never been through this. :)

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  about 7 years ago

Being broken hearted is corny and funny to others but I admit it's painful to someone who is suffering from it. I know because I was once broken hearted. Thank God I'm happily married now too. Those advices are really awesome!

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  about 7 years ago

I am happily married now, but I can say from previous experience that this article has some good advice. Talking with someone is especially helpful.

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  about 7 years ago

I've always had a lot of negative views about relationships in today's age, with the rise of television, social media, and the internet since the 30's. It's only natural right? I'm still for it all of course. I haven't been in a serious relationship yet but I'm looking at a girl right now, one that's not very socially acclimated (was home schooled all during high school). She's real smart, a little nerdy and kinda pretty, I think anyway. :)

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  about 7 years ago

Ty, You are right about the pu**y thing :=)

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  about 7 years ago

This is a really great article, I think you can really help some people with broken hearts, I use the old fashion whiskey method when I have a broken heart myself, what's your advice on that?

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  about 7 years ago
Bou'lae  

The article was good minus a few grammatical errors. If you ever need any proofreading assistance, let me know. I am here to help.

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  about 7 years ago
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