Damn! I want him to want me. I want him to want me more and again. How can I get him to want me more? Are you asking yourself these questions over and over again? It's driving you crazy isn't it? I know it is. That's how being in love makes you feel, especially when you're the only one in love. Do not beat yourself up about it. It is o.k. You are just three steps away from him wanting you.

What is your situation? Is he your ex? Or he doesn't even know you exsist? One thing for sure, if he is not your ex, then more than likely he does not hate you. Even if he is your ex, he probably just need some time apart physically or sexually. Let me explain what I mean.

Let's say for instance this mysterious guy knows you, but doesn't really know you like that. By the way you act towards him is exactly how he is going to think of you. If you're shy, then he'll think you're shy. If you're flirtaious, then he knows you love to flirt. Men don't think outside the box like most females do, so if you want him to want you, then you will have to be more direct.

I am not saying come out the blue and tell him you despretly prey on him and you want to tear him apart, but you will have to play your cards right. See, men love women that are strait forward and direct, but they also love a woman that is kind, sincere, and of course sexy.

Wether you want him to want you sexually or mentally or both, you will first have to get him in a mental state of feeling special and recogizing your beauty, strength, and sexuality. If you can do this, then you are on the right path.

I know you are probably confused on how to go about doing this, but you know what, do not have to much pride. If you need help, then get the proper help you need to fulfill your heart. And that's one thing we as humans can not ignore. We can not ignore our emotional and sexual feelings for someone.

Now, if you're like me and is very private when it comes to this situation, then you might consider a good relationship help book. Personally, I love figuring things out myself. It makes me feel more of a woman and encouraged to try new things. Plus, I love to read. When you read a real good relationship book, not only does it tell you in depth of what to do, but also get's your mind creative and more spontaneous. And you know every guy love and want a spontaneous woman.