Often, it is natural for someone that just broke up with their boyfriend or girlfriend, or even husband or wife to say, “I want my ex back”. When breakups happen, most of the time it’s done by one person, not both persons dumping each other, so yes, one person will want their ex back. Are you in this situation and you desperately want your ex back? Well, let me explain a few things to you to kind of help you get your thoughts together.

I’m a real person, that means I’m going to keep it 100. Where you happy in your relationship before the initial breakup? If no, then why do you still want them back? Is it because they’re fine and sexy? Is it because of the sex? If so, then you have your priorities messed up and that should not be the ultimate reason. Because, if you truly love them and you know that both of you can work it out, then that should be a good enough reason to want them back. We know that relationships sometimes go through a pitfall, but if both lovers are willing to separate their differences and communicate better at solving the problem, it will turn out to be a successful relationship.

You know something, sometimes it takes a person not to be visible in your life to either realize they are better off out of your life or you simply cannot let them go out of it. If you’ve been broken up for about 1 to two weeks, it might still be a little fresh of a breakup to truly understand your emotions, because all you know is that you want them back. You’re probably confused and still heartbroken, devastated and sad. Don’t be. This is the most crucial state of any breakup.

If you really want them back, I’d advise you to take a deep breath and find something to relax your mind a bit. Do something that you love, maybe a sport or hobby, or go out with your friends. If you’re still friends with them on Facebook, don’t delete them either, this might help you get over them, because you have the opportunity to see them and communicate with them. Just make sure that you’re not acting crazy by posting reckless messages on their wall or inbox. Take it one day at a time.

Final thoughts on the subject

It’s understandable when you truly love them and you really want it to work, however, there are steps you should take to win their heart back and have them back into your arms. Don’t rush it, plan it right, and then execute.