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Time, what is time to you in your relationship? Does it mean time is on your side? Does it mean that it’s only about you? I want to talk to you, right now about time, because time is everything in your relationship. Without time, you are forcing your mate to cheat or leave you- let me explain myself here.
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When I’m talking about time, I’m talking about spending some real quality time with the person you’re with. No, I don’t mean half stepping, or slacking. No, I don’t mean by always taking the kids with you out on a so call date. No, I don’t mean always sitting at home watching television. And No, I don’t mean double dating.
Whenever you do these things every once in a while, it’s ok, But don’t get in the habit of doing it consistently. First of all, your mate will start complaining (that’s if they haven’t already) or they’re going to be very unhappy and you’re not going to know, because they may not want to hurt your feelings or start confusion. These are the two things they will do.
For one, telling you exactly how they feel is the best thing they can do, because this will eliminate any further drama and set things straight. You can either take it or leave, because relationship is about communicating. If you take this offensive in any way I’m sorry, you are really not ready for commitment and your relationship is probably for fun.
Now, when your mate doesn’t tell you how they feel, and express themselves and tell you whether or not they're happy or unhappy, then this is a huge mistake anyone can do. I suggest you two don’t be together or else, there will be a secret that will be so huge that none of you will be able to recover.
Trust me when I say that time is your relationship. Without time and quality time in your relationship you lack knowledge of totally knowing the person you are in love with. With time, you are given the opportunity to get in the mind, body, and soul of a person you plan to spend the rest of your life with or want to spend the rest of your life with, but that only if that’s your plan. If your plan is not to spend the rest of your life with them, then just forget about time, and be on your time.
I agree with you about spending quality time with your mate. Quality time includes listening time and talking time. People need to share their feelings and talk about things happening in their lives. Then listen to your partner talk about what's going on with him or her. You communicate better when you both talk with each other and listen to each other.
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