Should I Call Him If He Doesn't Call Me?
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Should I Call Him If He Doesn\'t Call Me?

When a guy calls you first it actually makes us feel good knowing that someone is thinking about us and interested in talking to us. Especially if it's someone we're interested in. It's almost like a relief when we have received the clear signal that it is okay for us to also call.

But is it ever a good idea to call men first?

When guys give us their number, it means that they indeed want us to call them first, right? Maybe. The less effort the guy has to put in, the more he can sit back and enjoy the attention he gets. He will like the girl who chases him, but he won't take her seriously. He will have no problem calling up his dream girl first and pursuing her after that.

So what's the point of him giving me his number then?

If he really doesn't want me to call, then why did he bother asking me to call him? Guys want to see how interested you are in them. They want to know how attainable you are, and they want to know quite quickly if you are a short-term girl, or if you would fit more into their longer term plans. When you call up a guy first, it's a good stroke to his ego. But this obvious interest could lessen his attraction towards you.

If I don't call him, will he call me?

Do you think he will call any faster, if you are attached to the hip with your phone? You should never put your life on hold, while you wait for your phone to ring. You should always have stuff on the go. He should catch you either coming or going from something. This doesn't mean you try and make him jealous. When you sound like you have a "life", because you do, guys will think you are interesting. This piques their interest and desire to call you and get to know you.

This is why you always want the guy to have your number, 'cause if you only have his, it leaves you with no choice. The same rules also apply with texting, emailing and text messaging. You want him to be the one to contact you first.

The whole point to wanting a guy to phone us is not just the phone call itself, but the meaning of such. We want the guy we are interested in to be into us too.

Should I text him first?

The more we are interested in someone, the more we want to hear from him. He should always be the one putting in more effort than you are. We want to know that someone is actually into who we are, rather than just enjoying the ride in the meantime.

To feel more comfortable in knowing when the right times are for contacting a guy, just follow his lead. Sometimes you don't have to even get back to him. If he is interested and your last chat was on good terms, he will most likely try you again.

He has no problems doing anything he can to get a hold of his dream girl and having her know it, but with a casual girl he makes her wonder Why doesn't he text me?


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