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Dealing with a breakup sucks. I know it does. At the end of the day it is your choice on how you're going to deal with it. What are your options here?

1. Are you going to fight for the person you truly love

2. Give up on your the person you truly love and live with self guilt?

If you chose number one, then it's best you stop reading this article and go back to feeling miserable and heartbroken. If you chose number two, then keep reading and get inspired to get your exlover back.

Your true love doesn't hate you, they're just mad at you. Because being in love is strong and real, the one you gave your heart to can not hate you over night or be disgusted by you. If that's what they told you, they're lieing. The only reason why they told you such thing is because people say things they don't mean out of anger. And there is a way to get your ex lover back.

If the one you gave your heart to never loved you then it's obvious they probably meant what they said.

Let's focus on the positive. And the positive is that there is a way to get your ex back. Sitying around doing nothing is not going to do it either. You have to getup and figure out a plan. In anything you do in life, without a plan it's not going to turn out the way you hope for. In this case, your hope is to be with the person you love.

Do not:

1. Stalk them

2. Call them consistently

3. Check their Facebook or Twitter to see what they're up to

4. Use a family member to spy on them for you

5. Try to commit suicide

 

Do:

1. Pray about

2. Ask yourself if you want relationship counseling and help

Well, it's obvious you want help because you're reading this article, right? It is not the end of the world. If you know for sure the person you love 100% loves you too, then it is possible to get them back. You will need the right approach.

The first impressin should be your best so that they can have something to think about. It's like a dog. You have to train a dog in order for it to behave in a way you want them to. It works the same in all relationships. Its like a mind game.

Some people choose relationship books to help them out because most people are secretive anyway. If you don't want anyone in your business or prefer not to let them see you like this. Relationship counseling are a great alternative.

 


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