Five Years Of A Christian Marriage
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Five Years Of A Christian Marriage

The Best Out of a Christian Marriage

Are you a newlywed, have you been married for 5 years or less or have you been married for 5-10 years? If you are not, you are either engaged to be married or over 10 years in marriage.

Why? The stages of marriage can be broken down into years. I believe the hardest part of marriage is within the first five years that is the most delegate part of the relationship.

While in the beginning stage of marriage there is a process in getting to know your spouse. You learn how to understand what it takes to get used to living with one another’s; “their frailties, shortcomings and personalities.” Why, because your emotions or affections for each other will not keep you together.

Now within the first five years, then thereafter if you don't deal with all the things that were discovered about one another, you can fall into the toleration mode.

The toleration mode is to start putting up with one another because of the kids if any, having the ideas of marriage so you want things to work out, hoping for the best and or I can change him or her.

This toleration mode can go on for years and to find out that that person never changes the way you expected him or her to change.

I believe you can get the best out marriage the way the Lord intended marriage to be and to make it personal, “what the Lord intended your marriage to be!”

In marriage should never get to the point of tolerating one another and hoping for the best and for things to work out without putting forth the necessary work into it. This is by having total agreement upon both parties who knows and understands their own shortcomings and frailties and wanting to change them with the desire to work towards that goal.

In addition, the longer you stay in the toleration mode the harder and more painful it becomes once you start to deal with the issues. Why, because you will find out you had no idea how certain things about your spouse really hurts to have experienced, undergo, or sustained, that suppressed pain and or hardship.

My wife and I have been married for 16 years and have experienced the hardest part of marriage which is the first five years which the most delegate part of marriage. Wherefore, we had to make the necessary changes by the work of God with the attitude of making the decision to stay committed to each other and not the idea of marriage but doing what is necessary to have a great marriage while growing together in love!

I believe you need to grow in love than to fall in love and then fall out of love on numerous occasions like what so many marriages go through. Growing in love is a maturation process that is sustainable and builds love, joy, peace and happiness in marriage that last for a life time!

I want to introduce to you ways to empower, uplift, and equip your marriage to be successful by growing your marriage into a loving, caring, understanding, communicating and cherishing relationship being the best among all of your peers as an example to others in Jesus name.

For more information about ways to empower, uplift and equip your marriage to be successful, please click here and bless your marriage in a mighty way!


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