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If you would find out about one of your fiancée’s or your wife’s deep darkest secrets related to her past or previous relationships that she had never told you about, would you love her less than the moment before finding out about it? Would you ask for a separation? Would you divorce? Would you try to listen and understand her? Would you trust her further? Would you panic and get all confused and maybe even change your mind about all your future plans with her? – All of these questions pass through a man’s mind in the very first few seconds, and long after, he heard the secret. It’s like the world is coming to an end. When this happens, the women think: “Why can`t he just try to understand me? Why is he torturing me with finding all the truth about me? Why is he doing this? Why can`t he just let it go?”.

As an outsider, right at this point I could say that, it`s just normal for all of this to happen.

Today’s society implies certain rules and certain ways of dealing with problems that force the women to lie and nothing in this world is as we would always want them to be, so because of that, we have to adapt to the situation, and in this situation, some women get to lie, avoid talking about it or ignore, but in a man’s eyes it all come down to the fact that she lied.

Women lie because they are scared, because they are insecure and because they love. They would do anything to just not have to lie, but at the same time they need to do it. By doing that, makes them feel safer. Helps them prosper and keep up with the world. When they tell a lie, they are still scared, but not as scared as they would feel when they would tell the truth … You know … we have a saying … “truth hurts”.

Women are complicated! It`s the truth, no matter how cruel that sounds, and especially coming from a stubborn woman like me, I must admit the fact that we, women, are definitely real complicated creatures. – Women have been created to be loved, not understood!

When a woman doesn`t want to talk about her past, give her time. She will come back with the true story at the right time. When the right time will be? It will be when she won`t feel forced, when she won`t feel insecure, when she will be 100% sure that you love her for the one she and not for the one she used to me, and that you wouldn`t leave her for anything in this world. She isn`t using a survival lie, but a betterment lie, hoping to improve the situation, hoping that this way she will be protecting you, her sweet loving life partner, not only herself. Women may be selfish, but not overly selfish, women do think and care about men and their feelings even if they don`t show it or don`t talk about it, same as men don`t tell their partners they love them at every step of the way, which doesn`t mean they don`t either. Do you get it? … I hope you do!

Now, I`m not saying that all women lie for a good cause, because now that would be a big fat lie of me to say … Many do it for a living. Many can`t survive without lying, because they were brought up in that way or lying just make them feel more beautiful and happy. And my advice is, stay away from those kind.

Life isn`t as complicated as we think it is, we just make it look as it is!


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