Christian relationships are meant to be celebrated with two people coming together with the ultimate pleasures of sex. However just like anything sex needs to be engaged in properly. When entered into outside of the institution of marriage you open yourself up for disappointment and hurt. No, every marriage is not perfect and headed for eternal bliss however marriage is God’s way for us to establish lasting relationships.

Even in marriage there may be some sexual frustrations and disappointments. Communication is very important to maintaining a healthy sexual relationship. Often time’s women fake orgasms in fear of disappointing their spouses. Therefore putting their needs on the shelf. This can be avoided with some honest pillow talk. Talk to your spouse and share with him or her your sexual desires.

Spend time discovering your spouse’s “Hot Spot”. Everyone has a spot that makes their toes curl when touched, caressed or licked, yes I said licked! The marriage bed is undefiled everything goes when agreed upon.

It is possible to put the spark back into your marriage and experience multiple orgasms by opening up and sharing your feelings with your spouse. Share with them your desire to get closer to them and the need to have a more fulfilling sex life.

Sex should never be viewed as a chore, something to do out of obligation; you know “Your wifely duty”. Sex is meant to be a time of enjoyment for both husband and wife, each ones pleasure is important. It is believed a good number of women have never experienced an orgasm. So of course multiple orgasms are out of the question. Women have the tendency to put everyone’s needs before their own even in the area of sex. Sex should be something that both the wife and the Husband look forward to.

At the end of the day it’s all about you. You owe it to yourself to have a fulfilling sex life with your husband or wife and the way to do that is through communication. Spend time getting to know one another’s likes and dislikes especially when it comes to your sexual pleasures. You may find your husband really gets excited when you wear that red sexy nighty or you may learn your wife is really turned on when you grab her by the waist and pull her close to you. Communication in marriage is vital to having a pleasurable and fulfilling sex life, so get to talking, don’t waste another day in sexual frustration.