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Are You Committed To Finding The One
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Are You Committed To Finding The One

There are a lot of single people around the world looking for a man or a woman to have a relationship with.

Do you just want any relationship?

Or do you want to find that one special, amazing person who you can spend the rest of your life with?

Never have to worry about dating again?

Well, what I found out in my search to find my one true soulmate, life partner, feeling so blessed and relaxed knowing I found "The One", was that I had to be fully committed to it. I had to treat it like a plan to achieve a goal. I had to invest in the future I wanted to create.

Now it doesn't matter what you want to call this amazing partner who you want to spend the rest of your life with. Whether you think of them as your soulmate, life partner, true love or The One. It doesn't matter, what matters is the feeling you create inside of yourself when you know you have found them and they think exactly the same, that they have finally found you.

Before you start your plan and process for finding The One, you need to make sure you have let go of all past relationships. My article ‘How to Let Go of Past Relationships’ gives great guidance for following this through. What I do also recommend, is that you throw out everything which reminds you of your ex partners. This will include text messages and even their numbers in your phone so that you are no longer tempted to call. This is the best way to start fresh when you meet the love of your life.

The next step is to make a list of everything you can think of that you want in this ideal partner. My article ‘Know What You Want in a Relationship’ also explains the best way to write up this list. I can also add that you will need to at least follow a list of 3 non-negotiable traits that you will not accept in a partner no matter what. For me, one of these was a smoker. I would never enter into a relationship with a smoker.

Now you will need to take action towards fulfilling this process of finding The One. You need to put yourself out there so the love of your life can find you. Some examples of this include getting involved in a sport you enjoy, joining the gym, or signing up to class like art, cooking, dancing or martial arts. Even attending seminars on topics you enjoy learning about. It will need to be activities that you thoroughly enjoy so you can meet when you are happy and you will also know that you both enjoy sharing this common activity.

So for you to be committed to finding The One, means that you will never settle for the wrong partner and will also never give up. It also makes it easier to attract the one for you when you are happy within your own life. So following your passions and interests will make you happy and you will be a happier person to be around when you are doing things you love and enjoy. So no matter what challenges may come up, you will need to stay positive and focused and it is guaranteed to come true.

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