Sometimes being single when all you really want is tohave that one special person right next to you, can prove to be a stressful time in one's life. it always seems like everywhere you look, people are in so much love and that just makes one feel more lonely.

During this time, mostpeople will find themselves surfing through the net for dating sites and joining singles groups and all. I am not against dating sites or anything like that. I feel that a lot of people during this time end making wrong decisions because they are so desperate or this is the time they feel they can be picky.

They want a person who totally doesn't exist. they want a super human being, someone who is perfect. unfortunately, there are no perfect people. everyone has a blemish of some sort.

Looking for that one perfect person can prove very very difficult hence people get more stressed out.

I feel that if people take their time to really get to know a person they meet and are interested in, then they will be amazed. it always doesn't have to be sparks the very first day you meet . Sparks are good and if it happens...great. I just feel that peolpe are quick to dismiss a person simply because they are not tall enough or short enough or are not cute enoughand they totally miss the point.

You just never know who will make you happy. He maybe that ugly guy or woman you dismissed or that person you thought was too fat. people have totally lost the meaning of true relationship because we have totally materialized our relationships and have turned it into what it should have never been.

There are so many people who are sad and feel sorry for themselves each daybecause they have chosen to think within the box.

I used to feel like life would not be complete if i didn't have a tall guy who was cute and had it all figured out. it just never worked out for me that way. the moment, I chose to open my eyes and tink outside the box, my life changed drastically. I now am happily married and I have learned to live with and accept my husband for who he is.

I'm not trying to say that you just settle for any Tom Dick and Harry that comes a long. If there is no connection, there is no connection and you just can't force that.

There are people who I happen to know, they have matesthat love them to pieces but they are not content because they are always focussing on what these people don't have instead of what they have to offer.