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How To Get Motivation To Date Again
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How to Get Motivation to Date Again

Seems like now a days the dating game is harder than ever. If your a guy, than the girls seem to be way too shallow, and if your a woman then the guys seem to be way too immature, and childish. There's so many fish in the see, everywhere we go, but no one seems to take the bait. After a while it starts to get hard. Your friends all assume your uncool because you haven't dated in forever, so you resort to dating books, which again continue to make you uncool and get you nowhere. Seems like a viscous never ending cycle.

Trust me, it can end. You have to make it end though. I've been there. I've been to the lowest point in my life where all I could do is work go home, and study up on some dating material everyday. That dating material got me nowhere. All it does is make you think of every human interaction as something fake. Getting away from material like that is what actually got me somewhere.

I had to learn how to step out of my house. It's hard, and after not socializing with people for a long period of time makes it way harder. I've learned this past year though that stepping into your fears(within reason) is the best way to completely wipe them away. They will always be there to some degree, but you can tone the anxiety down greatly if you just do what your afraid of. If there's an attractive female in the room, go talk to her when you never would. I know this sounds easier said than done, but I assure you it's for the best.

Go out to bars, clubs and raves. These places are paying money to make money off of you so take advantage. Nightclubs set up a particular scene to get you feeling amazing. And when you feel amazing, you can do amazing things, and amazing things tend to happen. Host your own party. It's easy. You have every social networking site at your advantage. As long as you have a legitimate, legal place to host a party, you're all good. Just create a facebook page(not your personal profile) for a party. Give the time and place, and share it however you can. Make sure to check the peoples profile that are attending because there are a lot of shady people out there! Also, some party supplies would definitely help and are necessary, because sitting at a music-less party, without some party lights would be a sin!

Hope this helped everyone. Just remember, people aren't going to come into your life, you gotta make it happen. Everyone else did. Also, you have to enjoy yourself at the same time, don't let life get you down. I believe everyone was born to enjoy their gift of life, and spending it anxious all the time is the biggest loss. I've wasted lots of my time, but I've learned how to make the best of it and so can you! Hope this helped.


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