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How To Make Business Friends Quickly And Easily
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How To Make Business Friends Quickly And Easily

How can I help people? Take action! That's how to how to make business friends quickly and easily.

Who you are

Take action in ways that fit who you are. Take action in ways that relate who you are with what you do best.


You'll be effective. You'll matter.


Let go! Be like a child. Let adorable lovable goofy you out to play.


Look at this picture. Basically three people considering the same thing, right?

Child's mouth is wide-open! Eyes tightly focus! Totally congruent body language.


Now that's excitement, isn't it? For an adult? Goofy.

So what? It's delightful too!


Find ways to be goofy.

By the way, do you know what happens when you're finding more ways to be anything?

You also tend to find more ways to be effective.


When you're busy finding goofy ways to help someone you let go of yourself.

Get better

No matter how good you are at what you do you've got to get better.

Because you need growth.


Your passion thrives on growth. Do you want some of that?

It's real. You deserve it.

Here's the secret

It's yours for the making! When you get in the habit of asking yourself, "How can I help people here?"

What happens? You stretch your comfort zone.

You grow as a person! You continually reignite your passion for your work.


When you learn how to make business friends quickly and easily you'll bump into areas close to your expertise that may help your friends. That's exciting!

Why? Your ears will perk up because you care.

When your ears perk up because you care, you can pick up new ideas. When you do you'll begin to apply these new ideas.


As you see results? You gain excitement about the whole concept of, "How can I help people?"

Simply, naturally!


You'll find yourself doing a wee bit of research. You'll find yourself observing other situations with a focus you didn't quite have before.

You'll reignite your passion for your work. Your research and observations will lead you naturally along a path discerning who you are.

What path?

You'll get better at what you do in ways that bring out who you are more directly.

You'll get clues how to make business friends quickly and easily because you'll discover exciting new answers to, "How can I help people?"

Action Steps

(1) Play.

(2) Pay attention.

(3) Take goofy action. Bring your garden cucumbers and zucchini to share or home-made cookies.

(4) Do goofy storytelling on yourself!

(5) Be trustworthy.

How to make business friends quickly and easily is a living model for, "How can I help people?"

Street Talk


It's so important to get excited about what you're doing and especially about helping others, all with a positive outlook.

  about 1 decade ago

Thanks Melissa. You're right - it is about a positive outlook and excitement. Appreciate your comment.

  about 1 decade ago

One I needed to read right now. right on the spot. Thanks for sharing

  about 1 decade ago

Thanks Maria! You're doing great, so it is an honor to give one you feel you need right now on the spot. Thanks for sharing;)

  about 1 decade ago

Interesting thoughts and tips Cynthia.

  about 1 decade ago

Thanks! Appreciate you being here.

  about 1 decade ago

another great positive you writing...and I too believe it...the only way to get better is to help others....beautiful

  about 1 decade ago

Thanks! Sister Kaite I sure appreciate your compliment.

  about 1 decade ago

I get such an up feeling from your articles Cynthia.

  about 1 decade ago

Awesome! Thanks Shawn for letting me know. You just did;)

  about 1 decade ago

This is a good read Cynthia. You get your message across in a very believable, informative way. I can sure use the ideas presented here. Liked and tweeted

  about 1 decade ago

Wonderful! Thank you. Appreciate your compliments - delighted you can use these ideas. Oo! and that you liked and tweeted.

  about 1 decade ago
Joan S  

Ha Cynthia, cookies will get them every time. Goofiness makes everybody relax, but there's also an art to goofy. You don't want to come off like an idiot. I'm kidding because I know what you mean. Just let your childlike exuberance show. Very good article.

  about 1 decade ago

Thanks Joan! Nice insights. Appreciate your compliments.

  about 1 decade ago

Again a top article Cynthia. One that must and will in time place you amid the true greats within the Street Article stable....

  about 1 decade ago

Thanks Rob! Glad you're enjoying my articles. Appreciate your glowing compliments;)

  about 1 decade ago

You are giving some extremely good advice here in your article about how to make business friends quickly and easily. What a great way to structure your online business model and better help other people. Very good article Cynthia Jay

  about 1 decade ago

Thank you Jay! Appreciate your compliments. You're right in calling it a way to structure your online business model and better help other people.

  about 1 decade ago
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