Step Family Problems Solution - Living Epistle
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Step Family Problems Solution  -  Living Epistle

I am grateful and thank God for those who share the truth as it written in each of my articles in regards to the family. According to the scripture “the truth” shall set you “free”! However I realize that there are some who may not be at all interested in knowing right or wrong nor good and evil. Never the less this attitude does not deter me from still using a soft approach in my attempt to help bring restoration to our families and more over to blended families.

With that though alone, I find it quite essential to revert to my last article and the questions that I personally raised. There is a great danger in cohabitation. The experiential process prior to marrying that seems to be quite popular today. I am afraid once again the greatest harm has to do with the children involved in this matter.

But how can I forget the words of the apostle Paul in second Corinthians, chapter three and verses one through three. We are epistle written not with ink BUT with the Spirit of the living God. This brings quite a few thoughts to mind in regards to this subject matter. Why put your children in ‘harm’ way?

According to my research there is a dreadful danger that awaits your little ones when you enter into these relationships without careful consideration. Also research shows that more marriages fail than succeed that use this approach. Thirdly we discovered that domestic violence is more prevalent in the relationship where cohabitation exists. I could name others but I wish to bring these three factors to your attention as we continue doing our critical thinking.

Shall we look at these briefly one by one? Your children are in danger simply because the fact is that many cases of sexual violence take place during the course of cohabitation. However to add to that is the abuse go without reporting for lengthy duration of time. Also in the few cases where the child speak out for some reason they are not believe or possibly ignored because of the adult distorted visions. But this type of love comes with a cost! The shame is your innocence; tendered hearted little ones pay the cost!

A parent or a shepherd as the adults should be in view of the child’s safety and care is not properly caring nor loving their children as they should. Moreover the example that they set is neither a godly example nor a sensible one. We should be ‘living epistles being read by all men”, what happen to our rationale and diplomacy? I venture to say that we are suffering from personality disorders or social malfunction.

The world as a whole will not become better until we began to live what we preach! Let our examples become more appealing from a spiritual standpoint than that of the “Jones”. Now a good example couple with prayer shall assist in the empowerment of the family.


Street Talk

"because the fact is that many cases of sexual violence take place during the course of cohabitation". Source please?

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  about 8 years ago

Patricia Tjaden & Nancy Thoennes, U.S. Dep't of Just., NCJ 183781, Full Report of the Prevalence, Incidence, and Consequences of Intimate Partner Violence Against Women: Findings from the National Violence Against Women Survey, at iv (2000), Arne thank you for your attention.

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  about 8 years ago
Kymee  

Being a gentile, I praise God that he has grafted me into His family. I believe we should be that way also, just as God is for us. We share the same blood (Jesus') we should all love one another faults and all. Hope many people make it by and help to heal and broken families. I will share it. Thanks for this Kymee

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  about 8 years ago

Kymee, thank you so much for sharing. That is indicative of someone who real wish to help in a worthy cause. Blessings!

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  about 8 years ago

Kymee please do share it. we wish to make the world a better place, by bring about awareness. Thank you!

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  about 8 years ago

Kymee please do share it. we wish to make the world a better place, by bring about awareness. Thank you!

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  about 8 years ago
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